Much to our surprise, Kevin's headstone was installed sometime late this week. When we saw it (we go to the cemetery separately so Tom saw it first) it kind of shocked us. The finality sinks in more deeply every day. That being said, the headstone is beautiful and it is our last tangible gift to Kevin. We hope he approves from his heavenly vantage point.
Tom designed the headstone. He wanted the quotation to read, "Love Thee, Notre Dame" because Kevin died while a student at Notre Dame -- and -- because Kevin did have a love of Our Lady. That being the case, we added the etching of Our Lady of Lourdes on the headstone. Our Lady of Lourdes graces the Grotto at Notre Dame, and we made the unforgettable trip to Lourdes, France 15 months ago. Somehow it seemed to be an appropriate quote and design.
Anyway, we didn't have a camera with us and the installation left the headstone a bit muddy so we will have to go and clean and take a photo ASAP. For the many people who have asked where Kevin's grave is located -- he is buried at Holy Cross Cemetery in Cleveland. His grave is in section 35, lot 1942, grave 2. He is buried next to my mother, who died in 1981.
We will have some final thoughts when we post the photo. Thank you for all of your continued prayers and support. We rely on them. We will post our last edition soon. God bless,
Ann